Boys

It's been a while since I've had a boy. I miss it sometimes. Having someone to talk to always, someone to call me pretty on a regular basis. But I have grown so much as a person without a boy. I have become confident and I am thankful for that. I don't need a boy. Some people completely change when they get a boyfriend. I hope I never get like that. Even when I find a husband I hope I do not ditch all my friends for him. He wouldn't be worth it. I shouldn't have to change for a boy. I know girls who have done this. They lose their friendships just for one boy. That's not love, love is not choosing between friends and a boy. It's having all of it together. But hey, if you decide to choose a boy over all of your girl-friends then I can't stop you. But couldn't you have the decency so stick with your decision? Instead you go around being a half-friend. Or could you at least stick with your decision about your boy? Cheating is so low. Why would you lose all your friends for a boy, and then cheat on that boy? That is such a trampy move. You lost your friends and you are jeopardizing the boy. Do you put thought into anything you do? When we are young we are taught to make friends, because friends can last forever. Boyfriends do not last forever, not until you meet your husband that is. But in high school one doesn't look for a husband, they look for friends. Too bad you got that wrong. I know friends come first and I don't know where I'd be without them. I look back at high school and all my memories are with my friends, not any past boyfriends. It's a shame you can't do the same.